Wednesday, November 9, 2016

A Mother's Reflection


The following is a poem written about motherhood.


I'm told that I am part of a vanishing breed,
A homemaker, mother, but more, I must plead.
An actress I've been, convincing, I'm sure,
Plus teacher, nurse, confessor, chauffeur.
They've blossomed before me, like flowers did grow,
Savor in each second, I bask in a glow.

The little league champ, a chubby young lad,
Now stands tall and lean, college dorm is his pad.
Mark Spitz in the pool, the best in his class,
He whips through the water, head shaven -alas.
And listening to tales of a generation gap,
I smile at his words, "Hey, ma, wanna rap?"

The curly-haired tomboy, eye blackened, jeans clad,
Now a gracious young lady, addicted to fad.
Florence Nightingale she, helping others her bag.
Her smile is like sunshine, her radiance her flag.
Petite and demure, perfectionist, too.
Adventuresome, anxiously exploring things new.

The tiny young fingers which my hand would squeeze
Now flutter like lightening over ivory keys.
Sarah Bernhardt and genius she labels herself,
A princess, a poet, a love able elf.
The best she must be, the star of the play,
Fiercely determined to have it no other way.

They grown each uniquely, as well it must be,
And I marvel that God entrusted this job to me.
Locked in my memory like some prize I have won,
I've treasured each moment-regrets I have none.
No other profession such joy can impart
As that of motherhood, a call from the heart.

Eleanor Bongiorno
circa 1982








Quotes by Marcus Aurelius as inspiration

The writers were given a list of quotes by Marcus Aurelius who was the Roman Emperor From 161 to 180 and asked to respond to one or more in any written form of their choosing.  These were especially poignant as we went into one of the most contentious elections of a lifetime.



"A person's worth is measured by the worth of what they value"
By Bob Moore

This quote by the famous Roman philosopher can be interpreted in different ways.  There is reality, and then there is perception.  I believe that your true worth should shine forth as the kind of person you really are, for everyone to see you and love you as a good person.  Perception is NOT reality.  It is what another person perceives as your worth in their own mind or imagination, but it’s not your true, real worth.  Your friends, esp. your best friends, accept and value you and your worth as it actually is—namely, the truth.  Others for whatever reasons misinterpret your worth and thus fail to measure you correctly.  This is their biggest mistake and a problem they must resolve to live a worthy life of character.   B