The following story illustrates the age old problem of so many young girls as they struggle with that one other girl they are often competing against. Typically they have similar interests and could be friends, however when one wins and the other loses jealously, anger, and hurt feelings ensue. Thus enters what we today call, the "Tiger Mother" to come in and defend her hurt cub. I was fascinated by Joan's story from a different generation with this timeless theme.
When I was in High School there was a girl in my class named Lauren. In extra curricular activities we had the same interests, namely piano, drama club and majorettes in the High School Band.
Lauren and I both tried out for majorette leader and both of us did very well at tryouts. I was the chosen person and this created a very upset Lauren, but mostly her mother. She called the principal of the school and demanded a meeting at the school that evening with the principal, my mother, myself, Lauren and her mother challenging my win over her daughter.
The principal stated that we girls were very close, however my academic record exceeded Laurens so I was the more qualified candidate. He explained that there would be many times when it would be necessary for me to cut classes at various times to go to teach six, seven and eighth grade baton lessons in preparation for their experience to join the band when they were selected.
Needless to say there could be no argument so all went home. The next day at school she would not speak to me and there was obvious resolution to the problem at this point in time. However, she continued her challenge at every opportunity she could, but I also continued to perform to the best of my ability and I succeeded.
by Joan Clelan
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